Methodist Healthcare - May 05, 2023
by Emily Paulsen

A standing person touches their friend's shoulder who sits by a window.

Early signs of mental illness are an opportunity for connection. By reaching out to someone who appears to be struggling, you can make a difference in their treatment or mental health.

Understanding the early signs of mental illness can alert you that a friend, family member or co-worker is struggling. Just like knowing CPR can save lives during an emergency, knowing signs of mental illness can enable early intervention that improves quality of life and potentially prevents self-harm.

Early intervention makes it easier to get in front of almost any health condition, including mental illness. When parents, family members, friends or teachers recognize that someone is struggling and reach out with a simple question like, "Are you OK?" it can help connect that person to the care they need.

How to recognize early signs of mental illness

Any real change — a sudden or abrupt departure from usual behavior — should be on your radar. For example, if someone who's normally social suddenly wants to be alone most of the time, or if someone who's usually physically active wants to watch TV all day, that's a good reason to check in with them.

The early signs of mental illness can vary at different ages or stages of life. With small children, an early sign of stress may be suddenly having accidents or wetting the bed after being potty-trained. Older children may experience night terrors or frequent nightmares.

Teenagers can be a little trickier as this is when self-harm becomes more of a possibility. Kids who are cutting themselves may hide the wounds and scars by suddenly wearing long sleeves or pants. Older adults are often hit hard by loneliness, depression and mental illness but may be less likely to ask for help.

Other early signs of mental illness — including depression, anxiety, substance use or other disorders — can include:

  • Not sleeping or sleeping too much
  • Changes in eating patterns, including eating too much or loss of appetite, even for favorite foods
  • Mood changes, such as irritability or lack of emotional response
  • Lack of energy
  • Withdrawal from usually enjoyed activities
  • Unexplained pain or symptoms, such as headaches or stomachaches
  • Excessive worry
  • Feelings of guilt
  • Difficulties adjusting to changes in schedules or situations, even a reluctance to try new foods or meet new people
  • Drug or alcohol use

Some of these signs are completely normal during times of stress and will go away or decrease after some time. But if a change in behavior persists for more than a few days, or appears to a greater degree than usual, that's an indicator someone may be struggling with their mental health and could use some support.

What to do if someone you know is struggling

It's often easier to tell that someone is struggling than to know what to do about it. Broaching the conversation about mental health or asking questions about whether someone is considering self-harm can feel daunting.

Ideally, you have a relationship with the person where you're used to talking about emotions, feelings and mental health issues, such as depression and suicide. If you've already started that conversation, it's not as awkward to bring up the topic.

Normalize seeking help and open conversations

In conversations about mental health normalizing the idea of seeking help by mentioning times when talking to a friend or seeking therapy helped you deal with a difficult issue.

Parents, especially, express fears that talking to their children about suicide will plant the idea in their heads. But studies show that when parents talk openly and proactively about mental health and suicide, it actually helps protect kids. The same is true of drug use.

Getting comfortable with talking to a therapist or mental health professional about life goals and normal life stresses can make it easier to get help in times of crisis. You can do this by talking to your primary care provider or going directly to a mental health professional who participates in your insurance. If you don't have insurance, most counties have community mental health centers that offer low-cost or free services.

Show your support

If you think someone you know may be struggling, the best thing to do is to try to connect with them and offer support. If someone has been spending a lot of time alone, ask them to go for a walk or to join you for coffee. If they're going through a stressful time, let them know they can talk to you. Or, you can offer to find a therapist for them or help them make an appointment with their doctor.

Across the nation, dialing or texting 988 will connect you to the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, a network of over 200 crisis centers that are available 24/7. Trained counselors will listen, provide support and connect with resources as necessary.

Speaking up — and knowing the early signs of mental illness — can save and improve lives.

Find information about mental health resources from our broader health network, HCA Healthcare.